This week I’d like to share a story with you about how a donated fur coat became a heartfelt gift for the whole family. It’s Margo’s story and I have her blessing to share it with you here.
This is Margo
First, let me introduce you to Margo. Margo is a retired engineer who worked at Nortel. She’s an excellent baker and had her own baking business called Margo’s Cookie Jar. She’s also a figure skating coach at the Rideau Skating Club. And, fortunately for me, she just happens to be my skating coach and a COKANNA customer.

This is Margo, Photos by Anna Epp Photography, 50 Over 50 Project
When Margo heard I was making bamboo toques with removable pompoms made out of pre-loved fur coats, she generously donated her grandmother’s muskrat coat. She wasn’t sure how it came into her possession and she didn’t know what to do with it. Voilà, a solution.

Margo’s grandmother’s muskrat coat
Her grandmother’s coat
The coat came with this touching story:
“For Christmas 1983, my grandfather wanted a special gift for my grandmother. You see my grandfather was dying and he knew it would be his last gift to her. He gave her another gift leading her to believe that that was her one Christmas gift. Later when my grandfather was resting in bed, she found a box hidden at the back of the tree. She took it to him, opened it and there was the coat. It was an incredibly special moment, a special love, and a special gift.”
~ Margo
It’s been an honour to bring a new life to a coat lovingly gifted from Margo’s grandfather to her grandmother.

Recycled pompoms

Toque + Pompom
Gifts of love
Naturally Margo bought herself a toque with a muskrat pompom, a keepsake of her grandparents’ love. And, then she ordered 15 more. She decided to give each of the female members in her family a toque for Christmas with a special note explaining the origin of the fur pompom.
“I was so happy to give these toques to the wonderful, strong, and lovely women in my family. There were some tears, smiles, and lovely warm thoughts when the gifts were opened. We’ve all been blessed with knowing a wonderful, strong, and lovely woman named Aileen. I miss her so much.”
~ Margo
Now all the women in Margo’s family have a wonderful memory of Aileen, a Mother, Mother-in-Law, Grandmother, and Great Grandmother. The toques are in Orleans, Carleton Place, Napanee, Toronto, Woodstock, Sarnia, Montreal, New Glasgow in Nova Scotia, and even San Francisco.

Margo’s family warm & cozy in their toques
Here are a few of the thank you notes Margo received:
“It’s a lovely warm hat. I wore it when we were out walking last week. I love the pompom and idea of wearing a piece of family history and the warmth of family love. Thank you again for such a special gift.”
“Just a note to say how much I appreciate your gift and thoughtfulness. I have been using it for my daily walk and it does a great job keeping me warm.”
“OMG!! I love the hat so much and everything about it!! Thank you, Margo, for one of the most thoughtful gifts I have received in a long time!”
I love how sometimes the stars align and a true gift of love from years ago is unexpectedly recycled into new gifts of love for the next generation. Many thanks to Margo and her family for sharing with us.
Pick your pompom
I still have bamboo toques with removable pompoms available for these cold winter days. Buy a toque. Pick your pompom. There’s raccoon, black mink, beige mink, rabbit, and of course, muskrat. They’re all individually handmade and recycled from fur coats donated by women in the COKANNA coffee shop community.
Until next time,
~ Colleen

I’m a recovering Chartered Accountant and Breast Cancer Champion turned Fashion Designer. My COKANNA Canadian-made bamboo clothing is all about comfort and style. Giving back to the community is important to me so I support Rethink Breast Cancer‘s metastatic breast cancer education, support, and advocacy work.
What a fabulous story. Torque with memoroes of Love
Hi Lynda, Yes, such a great story. So glad Margo and her family were happy to share it.
.. Colleen,I am also a part of the wonderful family that you have shared in this post.. Margo’s Mom is my first cousin….. and I love her to pieces !!! She shared the post with me…. I remember my beloved Aunt Aileen wearing this wonderful coat.. She was beautiful ….. I would like to order one of these amazing toques.. Is it possible to have a pom pom from from Aunt Aileen’s coat ???
Hi Carolyn, So lovely to meet another member of Margo and Joan’s family. Yes, you can certainly order one of the toques with Aileen’s fur coat pompom. I’ll send you an email.
Such a beautiful story! So much love!
Dayani, Thanks for taking the time to read Margo’s story. It’s a heartwarming one. Just want we need right now.